How to Find the Perfect Play Partner

It’s funny, when I’m looking over my Google Reader. I’ve got a strange mishmash of feeds…Twisted Monk and Mistress Matisse and Ten and Mollena, of course, but then it veers into Lifehacker and Mnmlist and Hardcore Zen. Then we take another only slight turn to the right into productivity and entrepreneurial blogs like Seth Godin[…]

Must-See Video: The Twisted Monk YouTube Channel

File under: Awesome People Passionate About What They Do. My dear friend, mentor, and inspiration, Twisted Monk, has his own YouTube Channel! It’s not got the racier stuff, due to the TOS of the prudes at YouTube (unless, I guess, you’re Rihanna) but judging from the first video, it’s going to be a must-subscribe for[…]

Rope: the Path from GRR to MMM

“We must learn to position ourselves effortlessly within each moment, rather than stumbling through time. We can either escape from the moment or stay with it as it unfolds and do something good with it.” – C.M. Forni, The Civility Solution Last night was rough. Last night was great. I’m not sure whether the latter[…]


First, a couple of pictures courtesy of Percival, RiggerJay, and BendyYogaGirl: Getting the theme? Of course the songs and bands of the same name would come to mind. In fact, that was NovemberLuvr‘s entry: We were going to submit an interpretation of Cream’s “Sunshine Of Your Love” for the current ropecast gift cert lottery. But[…]

Back From Beyond Leather & Into Car Bondage!!

It’s been a busy couple of weeks, and there’s no slowing down. At Beyond Leather I taught what is probably the worst-delivered class of my life. I mean, when the subject is Military Style Bondage, and you forget to wear combat boots, it’s pretty much over. My apologies to those who sat through it, and[…]