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Gray Miller, aka "Graydancer", has been teaching, performing, and advocating for kink and BDSM for over a decade.
His work as a professional writer and web content developer can be found all over the world, including the "Ropecast" - the longest-running kink podcast on the web. Gray's cigar & leather play was featured on "Our America with Lisa Ling" on the Oprah Network. Over 50 of his "GRUE" Open Space events have occurred in five countries.
Gray is passionate about subjects such as rope, power exchange, leather, cigars, consent in the community, performance, and the educational aspects of kink.
BDSM & SEX EDUCATION
Practice & theory for all audiences.
Keynotes, inspiration, and informatics
Podcaster, writer, interviewer.
Open-Space and Traditional Cons
Here's what people say about Graydancer
Homework has been great - she just asked if we can go again tonight!
The difference is the sensual energy you coached into the scene.
Your teaching style
I Particularly Love
...the higher-level yet practical approach to looking at BDSM. (And really, for life.) It was lots of fun and very accessible.
Re-connecting to Rope
Gray returns to the podcast after a hiatus to talk about how he’s trying to reconnect to the joy of kink. He talks about his writing on medium ( http://medium.com/@graymiller ) and also reads an excerpt from his work-in-progress, “The Dance of Smoke & Ash“. Finally you get to hear a live recording of his performance[…]
Rope, Cancer, & Long Term Relationships
This episode starts with some information about a fundraiser for MetroVancouverKink, ( https://ca.gofundme.com/legal-costs-for-mvk ) but then gets really personal: “Adaptive Rope.” That’s the term Lisa (Tame Lioness) and her partner T call what they do. He is living with cancer, and it has changed how they do rope – but not what it does for them[…]
Interview with Phoenix42 Creator _Zaphod_
Back in the interview chair, Gray takes you to the Arizona scene for an interview with _Zaphod_, owner and creator of Phoenix42 Creations ( https://www.instagram.com/phoenix42creations/ ). They talk about “being a rope guy”, Taoist philosophy, creating consent with partners, how to create a more inclusive community, and more. This episode was brought to you courtesy of[…]
SPECIAL ROPECRAFT ARTISTS PANEL!
On May 26th, 2019 in Chicago Illinois at ROPECRAFT six artists-in-residence ( Marceline VQ, Mr. Beck, The ArtistFromBeyond, Corinne, Stressykitty, and Jazzibel) met for a panel moderated by Graydancer. They explored a lot of topics, and agreed to have them shared here on the podcast! Comments? Questions? Contact firstname.lastname@example.org New Episode of Graydancer’s Podcast about[…]
New Apartment. First #yelfie
Funny how the more active I am(like moving our apartment) the more vital it is that I do #yinyoga to recover…
Lasercuts & Lithophanes, oh my!
Today was a good lesson in “almost perfect.” Everything I did was almost a complete success…but it all has room for improvement. For example, the edges of this could be more rounded: And this attempt at an intaglio press plate printed backward and too thick: It’s resting on a phone stand I lasercut perfectly (on[…]
My First Lithophane
I’ve joined the makerspace here in Madison, and was able to explore a nifty (to me) version of imagery: At the end it has a light shining through it.
Happy Birthday ROPECAST!
February 5, 2005 was the first time the Ropecast hit the internets, and what a long strange ride it’s been! Gray picks out one lesson for every year and extemporizes on it – do you agree? Disagree? Let us know! This episode was brought to you courtesy of Twisted Monk (http://twistedmonk.graydancer.com) and Lee Allure (http://facebook.com/SpiralEyeSoap)[…]
My STDCheck Experience
I was provided a free STDCheck 10-test panel by STDCheck (value: $200) in exchange for writing this review of the experience. There was no editorial control or expectations from the company in regards to its content. Stigma. That’s really the biggest problem with sexual health these days, in my opinion. More than behavior, more than[…]
3 Things Tops Should Stop Doing in 2019
Gray launches the first podcast of the year with three things that tops (and anyone else who cares to) should stop doing in 2019. Then he reads a blog post published on http://TantusInc.com about dominance for the changing body. This episode was brought to you courtesy of Twisted Monk http://twistedmonk.graydancer.com and Lee Allure http://facebook.com/SpiralEyeSoap as well as[…]