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Gray Miller, aka "Graydancer", has been teaching, performing, and advocating for kink and BDSM for over a decade.
His work as a professional writer and web content developer can be found all over the world, including the "Ropecast" - the longest-running kink podcast on the web. Gray's cigar & leather play was featured on "Our America with Lisa Ling" on the Oprah Network. Over 50 of his "GRUE" Open Space events have occurred in five countries.
Gray is passionate about subjects such as rope, power exchange, leather, cigars, consent in the community, performance, and the educational aspects of kink.
BDSM & SEX EDUCATION
Practice & theory for all audiences.
Keynotes, inspiration, and informatics
Podcaster, writer, interviewer.
Open-Space and Traditional Cons
Here's what people say about Graydancer
Homework has been great - she just asked if we can go again tonight!
The difference is the sensual energy you coached into the scene.
Your teaching style
I Particularly Love
...the higher-level yet practical approach to looking at BDSM. (And really, for life.) It was lots of fun and very accessible.
“Mindfulness”, “Awareness”, “Connection” ? these are all words that are used a lot in the rope bondage community. This class goes beyond the buzzwords and into practical ways that your rope scenes can be hotter, safer, and taken “next level” (wherever that is for you). Combining Naiia’s woo with Graydancer’s skepticism the class includes meditation[…]
Closing out the year, Gray talks about some hard lessons learned during POC Listening Sessions. Then he answers a listener question: how do you get out of a slump when you’re tying? This podcast is sponsored by http://TwistedMonk.com and http://LeeAllure.com Please visit their sites and let them know you appreciate their help! You can also[…]
In part two of this class, Dr. Eaves and Graydancer talk more about how to manage power exchange and polyamory in the day-to-day and even to the hopefully-not-so-bitter end. This podcast was sponsored in part by http://TwistedMonk.com and http://SpiralEyeSoap.com Please let them know you appreciate their help! You can be a supporter to via http://patreon.com/graydancer […]
Both polyamory and power exchange relationships have complexities that can be wonderful, frustrating, or even both at the same time. In this class Dr. Eaves and Graydancer ? two people who are enthusiastic about poly, D/s, and each other ? will talk about some of the tools to manage these kinds of relationships in nurturing[…]
Ozma of Oz wrote an essay about preparing yourself for what to do if you or someone you care about gets accused of a consent violation. The essay is nuanced and useful, and Ozma gives some great commentary on her writing. It can be found in full in the show notes at http://KinkSexCulture.com. This episode[…]
Gray interviews Victoria Blue from her studio ( http://voxbody.com ) talking about how a rope space is created. Then Naiia joins him as they tackle the difficult subject of consent from “the other end” – combining it with a primer for anal sex play to talk about negotiation, lube, and other important ideas for sexual creatures.[…]
Naiia has serious kink presenter cred: she is part of Midori’s Rope Dojo cadre, a Consent Rocks Crew lead, President & founder of Madison Women of Leather, Kink Academy instructor, and RambleGRUE facilitator along with her own classes on bottoming, power exchange, sexuality, and mindfulness. In this episode she talks about her personal journey dealing[…]
Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com flips the script and interviews Gray about this whole Consent.Rocks thing: how it came about, what it hopes to accomplish, and how to get involved. This show was brought to you by: * http://twistedmonk.com …New Episode of Graydancer’s Podcast about Kink, Sex, & Culture
Gray starts out by revealing the secret location of the “lost episodes” of the Ropecast: http://ropecastarchive.graydancer.com Then things get serious when he answers a question put to him at the Philly GRUE: “How would you respond to a false accusation of consent violation?“ He talks about the advantages a kinkster can have using the SUDO[…]