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Gray Miller, aka "Graydancer", has been teaching, performing, and advocating for kink and BDSM for over a decade.
His work as a professional writer and web content developer can be found all over the world, including the "Ropecast" - the longest-running kink podcast on the web. Gray's cigar & leather play was featured on "Our America with Lisa Ling" on the Oprah Network. Over 50 of his "GRUE" Open Space events have occurred in five countries.
Gray is passionate about subjects such as rope, power exchange, leather, cigars, consent in the community, performance, and the educational aspects of kink.
BDSM & SEX EDUCATION
Practice & theory for all audiences.
Keynotes, inspiration, and informatics
Podcaster, writer, interviewer.
Open-Space and Traditional Cons
Here's what people say about Graydancer
Homework has been great - she just asked if we can go again tonight!
The difference is the sensual energy you coached into the scene.
Your teaching style
I Particularly Love
...the higher-level yet practical approach to looking at BDSM. (And really, for life.) It was lots of fun and very accessible.
This is part two of an interview done with Jessie and PJ Sage from the Peepshow Podcast about the ways that the SESTA/FOSTA rulings may affect the kink scene, and why we should support sex work decriminalization. You can find part one at http://peepshowpodcast.com (look for episode 16). This episode was brought to you courtesy of[…]
GRUE ca change, GRUE ca meme chose… – Old Quebecois Proverb Since 2007, it has been a privilege to share the idea of “Open Space” and kink with thousands of people across North America, Hawaii, and Europe. We’ve lost count of how many GRUEs there have been – some where in the mid-80’s, by best[…]
We’re starting a biweekly webinar series with some of my classes that translate well to interactive video. The first is… Creative Protocols for D/s Relationships, Sunday, June 10, 7-9pm CST. Ever feel like you’re going through the motions of power exchange without really feeling it? Have the things that used to get your heart pumping[…]
Whether it’s your first Rope Convention or your fiftieth, this interview combines with articles that GoodMostTimes, Ojipan, and BaconAndrew created full of helpful suggestions for making them GREAT. Read more at http://ropecraft.net/firstcon or check out the show notes at http://libsyn.com/graydancer to download PDFs . This episode was brought to you courtesy of Twisted Monk ([…]
Coming from Australia, Eternal Angel talks about finding the “edge” of your play, how pro-domming intersects with kink community, and gives us a taste of her new class “Consent & Navigation”, coming soon to a ROPECRAFT near you! This episode was brought to you courtesy of Twisted Monk http://twistedmonk.graydancer.com use the code “ROPECRAFT” to get a[…]
This episode is an interview where you can get to know Chicago-based kinkster WhiskyTangoFoxy. She talks about self-suspension, photography, collaboration, DIY kink, and why having a Statement of Principles such as the one at https://ropecraft.net/principles/ is a good thing for an event – plus a lot more! This episode was brought to you courtesy of[…]
“Mindfulness”, “Awareness”, “Connection” ? these are all words that are used a lot in the rope bondage community. This class goes beyond the buzzwords and into practical ways that your rope scenes can be hotter, safer, and taken “next level” (wherever that is for you). Combining Naiia’s woo with Graydancer’s skepticism the class includes meditation[…]
Closing out the year, Gray talks about some hard lessons learned during POC Listening Sessions. Then he answers a listener question: how do you get out of a slump when you’re tying? This podcast is sponsored by http://TwistedMonk.com and http://LeeAllure.com Please visit their sites and let them know you appreciate their help! You can also[…]
In part two of this class, Dr. Eaves and Graydancer talk more about how to manage power exchange and polyamory in the day-to-day and even to the hopefully-not-so-bitter end. This podcast was sponsored in part by http://TwistedMonk.com and http://SpiralEyeSoap.com Please let them know you appreciate their help! You can be a supporter to via http://patreon.com/graydancer […]
Both polyamory and power exchange relationships have complexities that can be wonderful, frustrating, or even both at the same time. In this class Dr. Eaves and Graydancer ? two people who are enthusiastic about poly, D/s, and each other ? will talk about some of the tools to manage these kinds of relationships in nurturing[…]