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Why I’m a PRICK who occasionally BORKs
Franklin Veaux wrote, as usual, a thoughtful and erudite post. I mostly agree with most of it, and I’m eagerly looking forward to part 2 to hear how he expands on his ideas about Safe, Sane, and Consensual vs. Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. You’d be well advised to read his post before reading this for some[…]
Dude, Where’s my Rope?
Are you excited about Shibaricon? Me, too. But especially if this is your first time coming, and you’re coming from far away, you may be wondering: how can I get my rope to Shibaricon? As someone who travels regularly with rope and other toys, I can tell you my personal secret: Pay the damn fees.[…]
Subclavian Massage Technique Works!
This just in: it works! Gray, Thanks for sharing Voron’s massage technique for the box tie. I was happily suspending a lovely naked woman, last night. She, foolishly, ignored tingling in he left hand until it was “asleep”. I applied the massage and she had feeling back, right away! I took her down and out[…]
How to Find the Perfect Play Partner
It’s funny, when I’m looking over my Google Reader. I’ve got a strange mishmash of feeds…Twisted Monk and Mistress Matisse and Ten and Mollena, of course, but then it veers into Lifehacker and Mnmlist and Hardcore Zen. Then we take another only slight turn to the right into productivity and entrepreneurial blogs like Seth Godin[…]
Why?
As I took some alone time this morning to read another chapter in Gar Reynolds’ excellent Naked Presenter, he talked about the first question that should be asked before beginning to work on any presentation: Why? It makes sense. Many people have the what and know the how but don’t bother to figure out why[…]
The Numbers of Kink
You may have heard: recently I joined the staff of the Kink Academy (affiliate link) as their “Editor Extraordinaire”. I get to get my hands dirty with video again, creating short segments of the best sex educators around sharing their stuff. Yesterday I edited a piece on eye contact for intimacy, a piece on warming[…]
Must-See Video: The Twisted Monk YouTube Channel
File under: Awesome People Passionate About What They Do. My dear friend, mentor, and inspiration, Twisted Monk, has his own YouTube Channel! It’s not got the racier stuff, due to the TOS of the prudes at YouTube (unless, I guess, you’re Rihanna) but judging from the first video, it’s going to be a must-subscribe for[…]