While the comments on this blog are WONDERFULLY welcome, there has been a lot of conversation about this elsewhere – for example, on Fetlife, and also on Jimi Tatu’s “Adult Rope Arts” List. While this was a post to that latter group, I feel it might have some benefit to the larger discussion, so I’m [...]

I’ve known about it for about a week already, but I’m finally able to share some really wonderful news with the world: I’m going to be working with the people at Maui Kink in a marketing/representative capacity. They’ve got some amazing products and some really neat ideas, and I’m looking forward to working with them. [...]

This is a short rant. And there are some minor spoilers in it from the new movie “Toy Story 3″, none of which should stop you from enjoying it. And I do recommend it; it is a lot of fun, with poignant moments and one of the best third acts ever put into a movie [...]

I’m frothing at the mouth a bit after reading this article, Have the Feds Gone Soft on Porn? There was so much wrong with it, and I decided to re-post my comment on the article (with the relevant excerpts). Please comment at the article; happily, most of the commenters already tend to advocate free speech [...]

I’m very happy to bring you the first video from the Great Ropecast Catchup: my daughter Danica talks about what it was like growing up in a polykinky sex positive household: Bookmark on Delicious Recommend on Facebook Buzz it up Share via MySpace Share with Stumblers Tumblr it Tweet about it Subscribe to the comments [...]

So, this great photographer, Mitchel Evans not only contributed a fantastic photo (and two more) to my Zen Bondage Garden, but he also appreciated my commentary on his photography so much that he sent me a large print of that very photo. It’s proudly displayed right now in my bedroom, soon to be moved to [...]

Ruthie’s Club, with erotica by Samadi Instant Expert’s Bibliography: The Book of Knots. I really like the rating system in this book. Yeah, the explanation of the system is on the inside cover of the book and certain criticisms of the book are correct but it is my favorite at the moment. Knots. This book [...]