Well, the votes are in: 39 people took the survey asking the question “Would you like to see more of Ms. Behavin’s Boobies?” She was convinced that the majority of the responses would be “Don’t Care” – and, to be fair, there was one person out there who did, in fact, say that. While we[…]

This morning I got a rare treat – in fact, it’s the first time it’s ever happened in over a year of dating. I got to make breakfast for my very own Ms. Behavin.’ For those of you who ever followed my LiveJournal, I used to post pictures of my various breakfasts, occasionally with people[…]

The beautiful necklace is the one mentioned in “NaNoWriMo with Graydancer,” and won by a fine bloke in Canada. There will be a lot of sex, violence, and magic going on around that necklace in the upcoming NaNoWriMo novel – and she’s decided that a full line of jewelry inspired by the Sex Magi books[…]

Well, much as I hate memes, The Snarling Misanthrope tagged me, and Unspeakable Axe picked up the gauntlet, and several other people I respect have picked it up, too, so fine, I’ll do it too. I have raised (sometimes on my own, sometimes with help) four daughters. Two identify as bisexual, one is definitely lesbian,[…]

I’ve been brushing up my rope skills lately, with the help of some willing victims volunteers. Latest was the bubbly ropefraggle Annabelle Lee (I suspect she’s directly related to Ms. C of the Studio Chicago, but no proof yet). Anyway, her boyfriend was kind enough to bring a camera, so some shots are by him,[…]

Update: The auction ended about eight hours after it started, with a very generous donation. I have interviewed him (yes, it’s a him, though that means nothing about the gender of the character) and we are all set to begin work on the book. While he’s the only one who gets to see everything I[…]

I understand the needs of marketers. The fact is, if you want to sell a website to horny voyeurs and fans of exhibitionism, the name “Public Disgrace” is a lot better than “Practical Rope.”  But when I go to the site and see pictures like the above one, I want to cheer. Princess Donna is[…]

Just saw the flyer for the upcoming Bondage Workshop – and last night, got my demo bottom for the class I’m teaching, Military Style Bondage, lined up. So join me and Ava Amnesia at the Workshop!

(GRUE, for those who are new to the idea, is an event I created called “Graydancer’s Ropetastic Unconference Extravaganza,” and it is modeled after the Open Spaces & Unconference models of self-organizing events. So far there have been five GRUEs, in Madison (WI), Western Michigan, St. Louis, Minneapolis, and the most recent, in Toronto.) One[…]

TheStudioChicago.com  & NawaShibari-Chicago. com present Chicago Rope Symposium :: November 14-16th Mark your calendars and join us for a weekend of bondage, education, & community. The Chicago Rope Symposium features:  Meet `n Greet Social 9 Classes over two days by local and national presenters: Lee Harrington, Graydancer, Leon Grossman, Ms Simone, Miss Jaded, and Descara[…]