(sigh) It’s happening again. It happened the first time when I was just starting to really study rope bondage. I studied it from the photography and rigging of Ian Rath of Fetish Nation, and occasionally through the bondage sets by Kelly Lind. I paid for membership to both sites, for as long as I could[…]

This morning I had the privilege of a visit from N, a bondage model who wanted an inverted suspension – not, as you might expect, for the kinky pleasure of it, but actually because it would stretch out her back. I put her in the most comfortable inverted harness I know – the famous “drum[…]

“The difference between a dominant and a control freak is this: a dominant takes what they want. A control freak takes everything, whether they want it or not.” “Routine and ritual are direct opposites. The former is when actions become so everyday that they are performed without thought; the latter is when everyday actions are[…]

I’m very glad to announce that I’ve been asked by Extreme Restraints to review a couple of items that may work well in our rope-ish endeavours: The Deluxe Digital Powerbox is going to be my foray into “electrosex” (which is what you call it when you’re not into medical play and “TENS” units and such).[…]

I’ve been remiss in updating my Shibaricon classes, and it’s turned into a bit of challenge: I have to limit the class descriptions to 100 words. So here are the updated class descriptions – see what you think: The Defining Moment New to the scene and unsure of what you want? Or a veteran jaded[…]

The pics from the Dr. Sketchy’s that Phaedra and I did are up, and I’ve decided I need to work on my “scary” face. I just look like I’m having a lot of fun. Still, I’m pretty happy with the way the images came out – the rope work for the most part looked the[…]

I’ve got to express my admiration for Lqqkout, who has been doing a scene here with Jinx for the last hour or so. After a really nice rope tie, he began playing games with spanking – the normal sort of thing like “tell me how many grommets in your boot – ok, now count on[…]

Which was different than the past GRUE’s in that there were only about 15 participants. The Unconference model still worked well, though, and during the day today we did: Stretching for Bondage – Amanda Wildfyre Bondage & Role Play – Camille & DeviantTouch Japanese Hojojutsu Aesthetic in Bondage – Graydancer CBT – Amanda Wildfyre Making[…]

April 27th, 2008 from 2-5 PM at the HIGH NOON SALOON 701 E. Washington Ave., Madison, WI ~~~~~~~~~~~ OUR MODELS FOR APRIL ARE: Beautiful Bellydancer PHAEDRA and Rope Artist & Kink Educator GRAYDANCER Grab your art supplies and prepare to surrender… for an afternoon of drinking, drawing, and debauchery. EXPECT LOTSA KNOTTY FUN! ~~~~~~~~~~~ Olive[…]

4 Hot Days… 3 Wild Nights…. Spring has FINALLY sprung! As the weather warms, we turn our attention to our summer vacation! Join us for the Midwests Premier Camping Event! Spank Festival is the only event of it’s kind for the freakier folks of the Midwest! Forget about the rules of polite society for awhile[…]