I have a neat little wordpress dashboard on this blog, and it lets me know when I have been linked to by other sites. Some are the usual suspects like Polyweekly, but I noticed a new one: Gloria’s Oversexed Mind. I was well down the page, enjoying the content and pictures and nodding my head over and over, agreeing with her commentary, before I realized who this was: Dr. Gloria Braeme, author of books like Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission and Come Hither. In short, one of my heroes!
So I looked for “Graydancer” on the page…it was not to be found. My brain made interrogative Scooby sounds, and finally in a search of the source code (yes, I’m a bit of a geek) there it was: I’m in the sidebar as the Ninja Sex Poodle.
That epithet started as a joke – during one of the many AdultRopeArts conversations about titles, I signed one of my comments as: Haiiro-No- Buyuoka, aka Graydancer, the Ninja Sex Poodle & Ronin of Love….Â Later that day I got a personal email:
‘While completely inappropriate as we’ve never met nor spoken, based on title alone I would sacrifice my virginity to the volcano gods to be yours (had I not sacrificed it decades ago… [though I’ve still got the box that it came in.] “
And that’s how I met Symetrie, who’s been a friend, lover, and demo bottom extraordinaire for quite a while now. I get to go up to the Cities this weekend to the “Babes in Tieland” event and tie her in a suspension as part of a gallery of rope art at a Secret Location.
Just goes to show you: the secret to getting the hot chicks? A sense of humor. Here we are at her graduation party, prepping for an inverted suspension (check out the cute camo panties):
And I’ll answer the question posed by the subject line when I’m not well on my way to work…