After the Portable Media Expo, my head is just a-buzzing with ideas for the podcast. From things as small as the way I talk into my microphone to the creation of entirely new podcasts, I can’t get away from it.
Which means it’s probably a very good reason to get away from it. So let’s talk about nekkid chicks in rope–specifically, Leilani.
As you can see, she’s quite flexible. Let this be lesson number one we can learn from her: This is not normal. There are few people in the world who can even fold their arms behind their back, much less actually touch their elbows together. One of the saddest things I’ve seen is people who say “No, I don’t want to try an arm binder; I can’t get my arms very close together.”
So what? That’s what bar ties are for! No more should you be able to do this in order to enjoy bondage than you should have to be able to support a suspension with only a few bands of rope, one of which is holding your head up by your hair. Again, this is beautiful–but there is a reason she is paid good money to model for this.
Part of the reason I bring this up is because of a rigging job I did for a phone-sex worker who occasionally markets herself as a submissive. She bore no resemblance at all to the bondage model I’ve linked to here–she was a voluptuous dark-eyed Iranian woman.Â She was, in fact, quite flexible, and in excellent health–but when I put her in an arm binder her arms at full flexion could only reach to about a foot apart.
I wish I had the pictures right now; just be assured I will show them as soon as I’m mailed the disk. Suffice it to say she was hotter, even, than the delicate Leilani, not in the least because she showed that the ropes were turning her on through her eyes, especially as her mistress lifted her by the ropes or pulled her hair. It was a joy to rig the shoot, not just because I got to tie up a beautiful woman; it was because she really enjoyed it, and was therefore sending out happy vibes to me as I tied.
The moral of the story: You don’t have to be Leilani. She’s great, and a talented performer, but the rope is there for everybody to enjoy, as long as they let their body tell the rigger how it wants to be tied.
But yeah. Leilani is pretty hot, too.Â