It’s getting back to time to get your GRUE on in the Bay! For the second time in a year, I’ll be running my kinky unconference format Open Space in San Francisco November 1-3. The biggest message I want to get out is this: IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT ROPE. Apparently the top reason people don’t come[…]
Note: This page contains sponsored links My friend Lochai once told me about his time in some of the Florida sex clubs, where doms would come in rolling large cases – practically cabinets, like the kinds of things you see mechanics keep their tools in. To hear him tell it, it was a kind of[…]
Please note: this page contains sponsored links. I have a real problem with this video. The problem does not lie with the dancers – frankly, from a purely choreographical perspective, they are pretty good (especially if they are actually in shut-off booths – that’s hard!). Nor from the idea of subversive street art: from Banksy[…]
After the guard had opened the door to a small dormitory-style room, her clothes and belongings neatly stacked on the bed, he’d shut the door behind her with a deliberate click. She didn’t bother to check the knob, hearing the tiny extra click of the lock. She dug into a pocket of her folded denim[…]
So I just finished “Banging Rebecca” (don’t I wish!) and thought I’d actually post a review to Amazon. Much to my surprise – and VERY quickly after I submitted it – my review was rejected. I’m still not sure exactly why…but fuck ’em if they can’t handle the word “cunt” when I’m writing a review.[…]
In case you missed it, this is the fifth chapter of my serially released new novel “Kumir.” You can find the other chapters with a simple search for KUMIR on this blog. Like what you’re reading? Take us closer to the print version by donating there on the left, just under the MBE performer logo.[…]
Apologies for the tardiness of this next installment; I let other priorities distract me from my goal of releasing a chapter a week. I will endeavor to be more prompt, promise, especially as things are about to REALLY heat up… Crossing the street, they approached the dark building that housed “T.S. Enterprises” according to the[…]
Submission is a definite kink of mine. So I have some definite ideas about what I think it is. These may differ from yours, and if so, that’s fine; write your own damn entry. This one certainly has come both in response to other people’s views as well as my own experience in relationships. “If[…]
One of the main problems I think we have in the community is the metaphor we use for consent. We talk about consent as if it is either a static object (“I gave her my consent”) or a territory (“He violated my consent”). The more I think about it, the less I think that’s accurate.[…]
There have been an overwhelming number of people and organizations demanding to know the identity of a presenter referenced in the writing “Shibaricon Concerns.” This is somewhat frustrating, something akin to saying “The house is on fire!” and having people focus on knowing the exact color of the flame. At the same time, I have been[…]