Graydancer Recommends: Dia Zerva on Real-Time Bondage

One of the great pleasures of going to Shibaricon was finally getting to meet my long-time crush fellow former-Marine-kinkster Dia Zerva. I had a great discussion with her and her partner WordMan. The two of them are pretty much models for how couples can communicate and work through the issues of sex work, and I[…]

Yummy Creamy Goodness from Canada

Ah, those Canadians…how I do love them. From the co-creator of my book Kumir to the Control Enthusiast to my bubbly, vivacious, friendly, and bane-of-my-ankle roommate from Sex 2.0, Alpine Subdreams. You may remember her from the Car theme with a toy car suspended from her labia. Now we have something else: a lovely rope-y[…]