The Art of the Japanese Bondage Shoot

Posted on October 12, 2010 by Gray Miller

This came by way of the AdultRopeArt Yahoo group this morning, and I thought it worth sharing. I’m not sure what exactly the shoot was for (there’s speculation it’s for the new movie Hana no Hebi 3) but what did strike me was the way it was so professional. The actress is obviously put in[…]

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Tying New York

Posted on October 4, 2010 by Gray Miller

It’s my last morning of a truly epic trip here in NYC. The community of sex bloggers, event organizers, kinksters, artists, sexologists, and more have been open and welcoming like you would not believe. Right now I’m spending my last morning at DGSolar & Violet‘s apartment in Brooklyn, after a pleasant evening talking about their[…]

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Eatin’ Pussy for Posterity

Posted on September 29, 2010 by Gray Miller

Yesterday I got to fulfill one of my long-time goals. I got to not only meet Nancy Peach, erotic artist and painter of rope scenes, but “pose” for her. The hope was that Minx Grrl and I would be able to have a scene hot enough to inspire her to create one of her large[…]

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[e]Lust 19

Posted on September 5, 2010 by Gray Miller

Photo courtesy of Emmy Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #20? Start with the rules, check out the[…]

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Ropecast Interview with Peter Tupper

Posted on August 6, 2010 by Gray Miller

This podcast features: a Ropecast Vocabulary Primer, news about rope pride patches a discount code for Ropecast Listeners from MauiKink: GDTC15 for 15% off most things! Then it’s an interview with Peter Tupper, kink historian and author of the forthcoming “Innocent’s Progress” coming from Circlet Press (check out their steampunk erotica anthology “Like a Whisp[…]

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A Response to the ARA List “Flag” Discussion

Posted on July 30, 2010 by Gray Miller

While the comments on this blog are WONDERFULLY welcome, there has been a lot of conversation about this elsewhere – for example, on Fetlife, and also on Jimi Tatu’s “Adult Rope Arts” List. While this was a post to that latter group, I feel it might have some benefit to the larger discussion, so I’m[…]

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Strip Psychology

Posted on July 25, 2010 by Gray Miller

A recent post over at the ever-stimulating Bondage Blog shows a still from one of those “great combinations” – in this case, Asian “pinkku” films with Women-in-Prison genre. As the Ropeguy puts it, it’s time to “Strip the prisoner!” It puts me in mind of one of the topics I bring up in my Military[…]

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“Freedom from Porn” But “Intro to Bondage”

Posted on June 25, 2010 by Gray Miller

This is a short rant. And there are some minor spoilers in it from the new movie “Toy Story 3”, none of which should stop you from enjoying it. And I do recommend it; it is a lot of fun, with poignant moments and one of the best third acts ever put into a movie[…]

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More CREAM Entries…

Posted on June 4, 2010 by Gray Miller

Minutes before I’m getting in the cab for Boston GRUE, I had to put up a couple of more entries. One I can’t actually post, due to copyright issues, but I can link to the idea sent from the Big Red Elf. Honestly, given the number of kinksters who are into lactation play, I don’t[…]

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Yummy Creamy Goodness from Canada

Posted on June 4, 2010 by Gray Miller

Ah, those Canadians…how I do love them. From the co-creator of my book Kumir to the Control Enthusiast to my bubbly, vivacious, friendly, and bane-of-my-ankle roommate from Sex 2.0, Alpine Subdreams. You may remember her from the Car theme with a toy car suspended from her labia. Now we have something else: a lovely rope-y[…]

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