It’s one of the things that a lot of sex educators will say everybody does it. Yet do they? I’ve known people – hell, I’ve had lovers – who have said they never really masturbated, at least not out of some innate natural desire. My own masturbatory habits were a mixed bag of blessed and unfortunate[…]
…also known as “that damn book.” It’s written. It’s even been edited somewhat by a couple of sets of smarter eyes than mine. But for some reason I keep procrastinating actually re-writing the parts that need re-writ, juicing up the parts that need lube, and generally whipping it into shape so that I can publish[…]
When it comes to the letter J, all of the words that come to mind are words that I’ve always found incredibly non-erotic: jism: nope, I much prefer “cum“, and the slang term “jizz” is even worse. “Ejaculate” is just too medical. Other euphemisms (“Sexy Man Sauce“) are good for a laugh, but not much[…]
For a while I carried one rather unusual implement in my toy bag: a bowling pin. It was mainly for psychological value – partners would expect things like whips and paddles and such, and when I would pull out the bowling pin their eyes would get big, and usually they’d ask some variation of “What[…]
Rhymes with “MILF”, and it’s my current full-time occupation and aspiration: GRANDPA YOU’D LIKE TO FUCK How’m I doin’?
While this might have seemed like a no-brainer, I’m not going to sit here and give people advice on how to perform fellatio, as some of my esteemed colleagues have done. One in particular is a het male who somehow manages to teach women-only workshops on how to give better blowjobs. That blows my mind,[…]
What, did you think I was going to say “dominant”? I hate being predictable. Actually, it was originally going to be that word. Having mentioned “control freak” yesterday I felt it necessary to express the other side of that coin: A dominant person chooses to control what they want when they want because they enjoy it.[…]
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