I’ve been lax on this blog, I know – been busy writing my third novel, KUMIR, and I’m happy to say it’s a rousing success. In my own head, anyway. I’ve also been getting more positive feedback about my second novel, now being serially released on Podiobooks. Visiting the Minnesota Kinky Book Club was also[…]

After listening to your podcast for over a year I had never actually been tied up before. I very much enjoy the podcast just for the warm and friendly way it talks about kink and sexuality- but I still have rather vague notions about my own preferences and inclinations. Visiting my hometown the other week[…]

I’ve just finished updating my “Classes Offered” page with a new class: Beating in Tongues: D/s Play with other languages. Do you and/or your partner speak another language? From Latin to Klingon to Russian, using language – or the lack thereof – as part of your kinky play can be an amazing stimulation to the[…]

If you were subscribed to Graydancer’s Monthly Cuppa through a service with the initials “P.P.”, that company has decided it violates their acceptable use policy. I have voluntarily terminated all of the references to that service on this site. If you would like to re-subscribe (or subscribe anew) to Graydancer’s Monthly Cuppa, which now features[…]

If you’ve listened to the most recent Ropecast you’ve heard me talk about the experience of working at the Twisted Factory – which is nothing like you would expect, it’s much, much cooler. You may think you know what it would feel like to have an entire factory at your disposal to plan shoots…but the[…]

…could not be asked for. I got the following feedback about my book Nawashi: GrayDancer, I devoured your book, Nawashi, on a short flight home from Chicago  and airport layover on Sunday (or at least the part of the book you  could fit between the covers with that really big font. 🙂 I look  forward[…]

There are many times that I have had to humbly accept my role as “He Who is Too Fortunate to be Allowed to Live.” Often that has to do with the amazing people I am privileged to play with or be involved with. Today, however, it’s due to my job, then for more Hot Adult[…]

Graydancer starts by answering listener questions about rope scene etiquette and passes on a question to listeners: how do you get your oiled ropes conditioned evenly? Another listener shares his awesome experience with his submissive putting to use some of the skills learned in Graydancer’s “Defining Moment” class. Future travel plans such as Oakland, CA,[…]

Today’s Unsolicited Boobies of the Day come all the way from Germany! Berlin, in fact, which recently was graced by the subject of the previous entry, Sabrina Fox. (Denmark? What do you mean, Denmark? Who would be dumb enough to think that DE was anything but Deutschlande?) And while Miss Sparks, the owner of said[…]

I know, I know, you just can’t get enough nipple clamp action these days, can you? Believe it or not, I had asked for more than just the Deluxe Nipple Clamps that you see on Ms. Behavin’s nipples above. I had also requested some clover clamps, but they were out of stock (something which surprised[…]