Gray launches the first podcast of the year with three things that tops (and anyone else who cares to) should stop doing in 2019. Then he reads a blog post published on http://TantusInc.com about dominance for the changing body.
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Hi Gray,
Thank you so much for sharing your article that appeared on Tantus. I really loved the article. From a submissive perspective, I feel that it is so very important for bottoms to realize that your top, regardless of gender or age is innately human. I feel like sometimes submissives put their top on this white horse pedestal…I’m not really sure if it is something inherent with some peoples subspace but I know that I have to be very mindful of this myself. The fact is though that viewing anyone in this way is unrealistic and can honestly be pretty shaming and damaging to a top when they inevitably can’t live up to those godlike qualities their bottoms and culture at large has set for them.
Thank you for being brave and vulnerable-it’s very inspiring. So are your #yelfies so please keep them coming <3 (#notbiased)