That’s not exactly how he phrased the question, but I did get the following from an avowed “vanilla” listener to the Ropecast: The one thing that still stumps me is the head space. My beloved wants me to tie her up and fuck her – Ok I’m good with that because I love her and[…]

Recently, some files came into my possession. They appear to be “reports” written by a submissive to her dominant, telling him what kind of porn online turned her on, and why. In light of the controversy regarding whether or not women enjoy porn, I thought sharing these files with the world, along with suitable illustrations,[…]

Please, Ma’am: Erotic Stories of Male Submission, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel, will be published by Cleis Press in June 2010. Introduction will be posted soon. It is available for pre-order on Amazon.com. Table of contents: Introduction I Live to Serve Teresa Noelle Roberts It’s Not Me It’s You Charlotte Stein A Charmed Life by[…]

with special thanks and a dedication to JinxedKisses and DeviantTouch, hosts of the YoungAndKinky podcast, and current leaders of the Madison, WI Zombie Lurch. Addendum: Zombie lurch was originally founded by MadIvy, another insanely cool Madison person. Presented for your edification this Halloween season, the definitive guide to RAZOR: Risk-Aware Zombie Orgasmic Restraint. “BRAAAIIIINNNNNSSSSS!!” is[…]

It’s the second most common question asked of riggers: “Where did you learn to do that?” Often the answer is “Shibaricon!” or, if they’re lucky, “Oh, I took a few of Max’s classes,” or “I went to one of Midori’s Rope Dojos with my partner, and…” Occasionally, such as in the recent Ropecast interview with[…]

You may have heard that a lovely chap by the name of Monk will be attending the Hartford GRUE. He’s quite the twisted little fellow, with lots of maniacal ideas for bodies and rope and steel and such. He’s also been known to sell, on occasion, the FINEST HAND-CONDITIONED ORGANIC HEMP ROPE IN THE UNIVERSE!![…]

Graydancer begins the Final Ropecast…on his poor dying MacBook, anyway. Future episodes will be gratefully produced on a new MacBook Pro provided by an Anonymous Donor – to whom Graydancer and all Ropecast listeners owe a great debt of thanks. Direct Download Have you made plans for April 2010 yet? Make sure they include Beyond[…]

I don’t know about you, but this day – this supposedly “magical” day – has been a pretty hard one. So I’m doing my best to fight it by making other people’s day better. Be a little nicer to the person at the store. Buy lunch for somebody. Share a very pretty picture of an[…]

It is with great pleasure that I tell you all that my friend and colleague Cherries Jubalie has just had her debut set with KINK.com put online. You can check out the preview here, of course, but you’ll have to actually sign up, if you want to see the whole update. Having seen Cherry in[…]