Graydancer, Rope Artist Extraordinaire

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"Like it or not, pornography is a form of art."

I don’t know why I’ve not really mentioned it, but I’m going to be travelling up to the cities this next weekend as part of the "Sexy Spring" celebration. I’m really honored to have been asked to be a presenter there, though not in my usual motif - nary a rope in sight. No, I’m […]

…and women, but according to this study:
“… men into BDSM scored significantly better on a scale of psychological wellbeing than other men.
?This seems to imply that these men are actually happier as a result of their behaviour, though we’re not sure why,? she said.
?It might just be that they’re more in harmony with themselves because […]

Some of you know that I have a special fondness for minx, the host of the Polyamory Weekly podcast. Well, she’s going through some hard times right now, and could use a little help. Yes, financially–car trouble, medical bills, bf trouble, you name it, she’s got it going wrong right now.
She has a donation button […]

I’m on the enjoyable side of my fetish performances at the Miramar and workshops at A Woman’s Touch, both of which went very, very well. There are stories to tell about the performance, but that’ll wait for the podcast (and we have video, too!). However, our car also died over the weekend, and we’ve been […]

How much effort do you put into planning a scene?
I’m in the process of putting together a "crying" scene. That is, my sub and I have been talking about what is needed for the next scene we do, in extensive negotiation. Part of this has been to find out from her what different kinds of […]

Digg now has Podcasts on it…and the Ropecast is there! If you do things with this service, please spare a moment and give me a Digg, just cuz it’ll make me feel better. Right now hardly anyone’s done it, so for a while we can get the Ropecast up there, if enough people help out.
I […]

Last night was the first of what I hope will be many fun fetish nights at the Cardinal Bar. I was at first pretty discouraged, as the crowd was very slow to form, but by 11pm I’d tied my first victi–er, volunteer, a rope virgin named M. Our negotiations were adorable:"I’ve been, you know, tied […]

Today someone who I chat with while working said something very flattering to me. She’s a person I know tangentially, but we’ve seen each other on the local scene, and she spoke about her impression of me:

"You seem to have more of a connection with the people you are playing with, and while there is […]

So proud of my peeps! Some local folk submitted this image to GloRoMo for the "color" theme. I gotta say, I don’t know that we’re going to make 50,000 feet, but there’s a lot of fun rope tying going on out there. NyteMagik and Raven also submitted a VERY hot breast tie with Monk’s phoenix […]