Graydancer

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Monday, March 20th, 2006

Supreme Court Decision in the Communications Decency Act (CDA)

March 20, 2006 - Washington D.C.

Today the U.S. Supreme Court affirmed the Federal District Court’s decision in Barbara Nitke and NCSF v. Alberto Gonzales, the challenge to the Communications Decency Act, #01 CIV 11476 (RMB). The Supreme Court has affirmed the lower court’s decision without hearing oral arguments, sending a clear signal that the court will not protect free speech rights when it comes to sexually explicit materials.

The NCSF and Nitke lawsuit was successful in weakening the Miller standard of judging obscenity: the District Court for the Southern District of NY made a factual finding that the SLAPS prong of Miller does not provide protection against prosecution as it was intended to do. The Miller decision (1973) stated that materials were constitutionally protected if the work, taken as a whole, has “serious literary, artistic, political, or scientific value.” However the District court accepted evidence from NCSF and Nitke that prosecutors and juries in more restrictive communities are less likely to extend protection to artistic and literary materials that are outside the mainstream of traditional sexuality.

“We have proven that Miller does not work,” says Susan Wright, Spokesperson for NCSF. “But the Supreme Court has declined to strike it down at this time. That means every website on the Internet can be judged by the most repressive local community standards in the U.S.”

The Supreme Court decision shows the importance of supporting NCSF, one of the few organizations proactively fighting obscenity laws. The CDA makes it a crime to post obscenity on the Internet because those materials may be viewed by children. NCSF and Nitke believe that adults should have the right to post and view sexually explicit materials involving consenting adults on the Internet.

“We knew that the Bush administration was laying its plans to prosecute sexually explicit material on the Internet,” says John Wirenius, attorney for the plaintiffs. “By filing our lawsuit in 2001, we may have slowed the Justice Department from prosecuting obscenity in 2002-3, but the number of obscenity prosecutions has steadily increased ever since. We believe in fighting this battle and we took our fight all the way to the Supreme Court.”

“I think we’ve achieved a great victory in drawing attention to how politicized our judicial system has become,” says co-plaintiff Barbara Nitke, a fine art photographer who explores sexual relationships in her work. “Our obscenity laws are outmoded, especially in conjunction with the Internet. We’ve made a huge dent in how obscenity will be judged in the future, and I hope others will now stand up and continue to fight against repressive laws like this.”

NCSF and Barbara Nitke would like to thank everyone who contributed to fund this important lawsuit, as well as the many dedicated witnesses and lawyers who assisted in bringing this case to court. In particular, NCSF and Nitke thank John Wirenius for his outstanding efforts in this case and his dedication to First Amendment rights. NCSF intends to continue the fight against obscenity laws in the U.S.

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom - www.ncsfreedom.org
Barbara Nitke - www.barbaranitke.com

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A project of NCSF

The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is a national organization committed to creating a political, legal, and social environment in the United States that advances equal rights of consenting adults who practice forms of alternative sexual expression. NCSF is primarily focused on the rights of consenting adults in the SM-leather-fetish, swing, and polyamory communities, who often face discrimination because of their sexual expression.

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
822 Guilford Avenue, Box 127
Baltimore, MD 21202-3707
410-539-4824
media@ncsfreedom.org
www.ncsfreedom.org

Fixed the show notes…

Monday, March 20th, 2006

I’ve also produced this one as an enhanced podcast–viewable in QT or iTunes or on a Video iPod:

let me know what you think…it was a lot more work. Was it worth it?

Rope Weekly 3.19.06

Sunday, March 19th, 2006

Rope Weekly 3.19.06 Show Notes.

How about that? Show notes up even before the podcast…

chinese bodypaint

Sunday, March 19th, 2006

A very neat link to some beautiful chinese bodypaint which puts me in mind of my fellow podcaster, Kevin Mason, of Coloring Outside the Lines. Although this is putatively about body painting, it’s more about the parts of art that fall between the cracks, and the people who make it.

A preview of RW…

Saturday, March 18th, 2006

I’m building the show today (and tomorrow) and will be posting it soon, but meanwhile here’s a sneak peak at a fun rope rehearsal I did with BrightEyes.

Sexy Tuesday

Tuesday, March 7th, 2006

Well, it’s a little late on tuesday for me to write about sexy stuff. I mean, I was going to write about the rehearsal that I had the other day. It was with an on-again, off-again lover, and we’ve been in friendly off-again status for a while.

The plan for the performance is to do an inverted suspension, which calls (in this case) for a pretty elaborate waist harness. As panties tend to make the rope slip, off they came…and about the third time my hand brushed her mons as I drew the rope between her legs, she moved to meet it, pressing against it.

When it was done, she went to look in the mirror. The ropes made diamond frames around her pussy and ass, the curves neatly cut and pressed by the sharp angles and knots. There was a long, lingering kiss of “thank you” after she looked in the mirror…and a bit of a whimper of “Don’t we have better things to do?” when I led her to the suspension frame.

I’ve decided that the closest we’ll ever get to zero-gee sex, that holy grail of sci-fi sex, is rope suspension. It’s not just that when she was suspended, her pussy was not only perfectly positioned and pursed for my lips; it’s not that while I was going down on her, my cock was in her mouth, being sucked and licked through the moans as she came.

No, it’s because when someone is suspended like that, you can put your hand on and in her dripping vulva, and turn her entire body. Imagine that for a moment–having your entire body moved, despite the force of gravity, by your sexual organ. Imagine the stimulation of it, feeling everything you are revolving around that one axis of pleasure.

Kind of neat, eh? She orgasmed quite nicely, and then we were able to take some pictures, as well, for posterity. Click on the image to see some.

Most of my rehearsals are NOT like this at all. Even the ones with current lovers, much last past ones. But…having one like this once in a while? Makes a nice change.

Hmmm. Guess I had time for an erotic entry after all. And it’s still even tuesday.

But what I was going to say was: go look at my minx in Eros Zine. I could say “I’m so proud of her.” I could say “Wow, isn’t she hot? I’m such a stud that I get to fuck her!” I could say, “Why the hell didn’t they link the name ‘Graydancer’ to my blog!?!”

But all I want to say is: I love her.

Well written proversions

Sunday, March 5th, 2006

I’ve known about this for a while, but I finally actually read my friend Monk’s Column on Jane’s Guide. Really entertaining stuff, as I would expect from someone as engaging, well spoken, and affable in person as he is.

Though that does not always translate into good writing, as the previous heinously deviated sentence attests. In his case, it does.

Me, after my last post, I realized that for a sex blog (which this putatively is) I gloss over an awful lot of the naughty bits. So, I think we’re going to instigate a “Porn Tuesday”, when I will make sure that the entries on that day are at the very least raunchy enough to curl the hair of your average Fundie.

The goal is to get a message on Bacchus’ or Rope Guy’s annual sex-blog updates. But they tend to be pretty picky, so it’ll probably take some time to build up to that level of quality.

That’s ok. Great quote from the Burning Man movie that Genevieve and I went to yesterday in Chicago: “All of my failures were simply an extended course of study leading to what I really was meant to do.”

Not all about the rope…

Saturday, March 4th, 2006

I’ll be talking about it more in the next Rope Weekly, but briefly: during our first scene as actual members of Galleria Domain, Genevieve and I were trying some rope play…and it wasn’t working. She liked the lacing table, but that was kind of rote for me, and when I tried doing what I liked, putting her in a face harness a la Bridgett Harrington, she discovered she didn’t like that. Then, when a couple near us needed help getting the woman out of her spider-web quickly (and kudos to him for having the security in his own skills to know when to ask for help), well, it pretty much took us way, way out of any kind of D/s headspace, something that’s hard enough for us as a married couple to find in the first place.

But you know what? Later on, giggling, we decided to have her lay in the sex swing–a ’70’s era thing, something that my rope snobbery would never have considered, but it was fun…and there was her pussy, right there, and a handy stool nearby, and she had a rest for her legs, and when standing my cock went pretty neatly into her pussy, and pretty soon…well, it wasn’t exactly D/s, but what it was was GOOD.

It’s all about the energy, folks. Sometimes that’s not rope…

Some other Podcasts of note…

Thursday, March 2nd, 2006

I’m thrilled that the Sacred Whore herself, Melissa Gira, has a new Whorecast out: “What We Are at War.” It’s a brilliant piece of theatre, commentary, a thing of beauty; she does with sound what I try to do with rope. I can only imagine what she must be like in person…

My friend 5×5Guy has been plugging away with the new Queer Sex Weekly, and no, I’m not jealous that he’s got more listeners by his 4th show than I’ve ever had (or ever will have). Ah, the curse of being a niche podcaster…he’s doing a great job, and is especially looking for some kinky folks to interview (and I believe be part of a study, as well…so see, you can be Kinky for Science!).

Minx and I were lucky enough to meet Michelle Belanger at Ohio Leather Fest, and struck up a budding friendship. I almost got to see her for my birthday, but that was not to be; but when I tuned into her new podcast ShadowDance, I couldn’t stop smiling at hearing her warm voice coming through my headphones. She and her co-host will be exploring vampirism, magick, and other arts that lie somewhere outside the light…sounds like the start of something great.

And my very own minx is celebrating her one-year podcastiversary, and is looking for people to send her audio comments. You can hear her show at Polyweekly, or email her at cunningminx at gmail dot com. I’m so proud to be part of her success…

A correction, btw, courtesy of a listener. Claire Adams was, in fact, credited on the spread in Vanity Fair–just not in any place that one would notice enough. She deserves more. Then again…I’m biased.